This Fisherman Waits At Famous Mumbai Suicide Point To Save People Who Attempts Suicide

Rajaram Joshi saves those who jump off the Vashi creek bridge. He doesn’t seek money or recognition.

Rajaram Joshi clearly remembers the first time he saved a person from drowning — he was 12, and the boy he saved, seven. “My father, who was also a fisherman, taught me how to swim. During a swimming class, he told me that while drowning, a person clutches on to you and transfers his body weight to your shoulder. He also taught me how to handle such a situation without putting my life in danger,” recalls Joshi. These are lessons he keeps in mind every time he ventures into the water to save a life.

A fifth-generation fisherman, 37-year old Joshi fishes at the Vashi creek in Navi Mumbai, one of the entry-points to Mumbai. The bridge, a part of the Sion-Panvel highway, has gained a reputation as a suicide spot due to the increasing number of people who choose to end their lives there.

Joshi is summoned by the control room every time it’s alerted about a suicide attempt, to help rescue the person. Over the course of three years, Joshi has rescued 22 people who have jumped off the bridge in an attempt to commit suicide. He says he has also recovered 18 bodies in the same period. “After I receive a call from the control room, I reach the Vashi creek usually within seven minutes. I rush to the creek on my bike, so I have often reached before the fire brigade,” Joshi smiles.

Joshi enters the water on a boat or guides the fire brigade during the rescue mission, armed with his knowledge of the sea and its tricky terrain.

Though much sought after, Joshi has never accepted money for his efforts, even if a rescue mission has led to the loss of a day’s catch or damage to his fishing nets. The call can come any time — morning or night, high or low tide. “At times, the call comes in the middle of the night. Usually, rescuing someone can take anywhere between 10-30 minutes. If the person has drowned, it takes much longer to trace their body, sometimes hours,” he explains.

Why Mumbai kills itself

Joshi says that a majority of those rescued were youngsters who decided to end their lives over failed love affairs. Other reasons include domestic issues such as marital trouble, abuse, financial debt or pregnancy out of wedlock. “People think jumping off the bridge is an easy way to die. It causes a lot of physical pain and people scream helplessly. People decide to kill themselves after much back and forth. But once they jump and see people rushing to save them, they hope to get rescued. And that makes it important for me to give them that last hope,” says Joshi.

This is also probably why Joshi goes beyond his brief and meets the people he saves. He visits them at the hospital, or meets their friends and family. “Many youngsters get influenced by films and try to commit suicide. Usually, in the case of young boys, I counsel them and explain to them that it is futile to kill yourself over lost love. I once also went and met the parents of a couple who had tried to commit suicide because the parents opposed their relationship. I think they were eventually allowed to marry,” laughs Joshi.

Joshi, who was felicitated by the Navi Mumbai Commissioner Dinesh Waghmare on the occasion of National Fire Service Week this year, says he does not look forward to awards or recognition for his work. “I only began making a note of the lives I have saved since 2012 after a police officer advised me to do so. I have not been recognised by the government for my work — I do not even have a Police Mitra card. I am only worried about my family. If something were to happen to me while saving a person, my family will not get insurance from the authorities,” says Joshi, who lives in Vashigaon along with his wife and two children.

INITIATIVE
One-man suicide watch on Vashi creek

THE HERO
Rajaram Joshi

NOMINATED FOR
Offering to save lives at any time of the day or night, with little regard for his own life

GETS MY VOTE
Whenever he is informed about a rescue, Rajaram comes immediately. He extends all help and ensures that the person’s life is saved
Vivek Mhatre,
Asst Station Officer,
Vashi Fire Brigade

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Conversation Between A Major And A Nurse

The on-duty nurse took the anxious young Major to the bedside.
“Your son is here,” she said softly, to the old man lying there.
She had to repeat the words several times before the patient’s eyes opened.
Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Major standing outside the oxygen tent.
He reached out his hand.
The Major wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man’s limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.
The nurse, observing the touching moments, brought a chair so that the Major could sit beside the bed.
“Thank you Ma’am!” a polite acknowledgement followed.
All through the night the young Major sat there in the poorly lit ward, holding the old man’s hand and offering him words of love and strength. Occasionally, the nurse suggested that the officer move away and rest awhile.
He graciously refused.
Whenever the nurse came into the ward, he was oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital – the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients.
Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.
Along towards dawn, the old man died. The Major released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse.
While she did what she had to do, he waited,

Finally, she returned,- & started to offer words of sympathy, but the Major interrupted her.
“Who was that man?” he asked.

The nurse was startled,
“He was your father,” she answered.
“No, he wasn’t,” the Major replied.
“I never saw him before in my life.”
“Then why didn’t you say something when I took you to him?”
“I knew right away there had been a mistake, but I also knew he needed his son, and his son just wasn’t here!”
The nurse listened on, confused.
“When I realized that he was too sick to tell whether or not I was his son, knowing how much he needed me, I stayed.”
“So then what was the purpose of your visit here, at the hospital, good sir?”, the nurse queried of him.
“I came here tonight to find a Mr. Vikram Salaria.
His son was Killed in J&K last night, and I was sent to inform him.”
‘But the man whose hand you kept holding whole night was Mr Vikram Salaria!’
They stood in complete silence. There couldn’t be anything more assuring for a dying man than his son’s hand!
The next time someone needs you, just be there!
&
Just stay!

We Are Not Human Beings Going Through A Temporary Spiritual Experience; We Are Spiritual Beings Going Through A Temporary Human Experience!